On Saturday, September 20, 2025, you'll get even more of what you love about FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS: a whole day full of helpful coaching content and psychological input.
Secure one of the limited places for you and your partner now. The CoachingTAG is suitable for singles and couples, whether straight or queer.
This is what you get:
What: 6 intensive sessions in which you learn more about yourself and others and have fun!
When: Sat., September 20, 2025, 9:30 a.m. - 5 p.m.
Where: Shared apartment, Richard-Wagner-Str. 39, 50674 Cologne
Put an end to frustrating dates, toxic patterns and the same old arguments in relationships. It's time for real change! At FAIL IN LOVE CoachingTAG you will get the answers you have been looking for for so long.
🌟 Experience in-depth workshops, interactive exercises & transformative hypnotherapy session. The right moment for your transformation is NOW. 🌟
✅ Becoming capable of conflict: Allow closeness, maintain boundaries & resolve conflicts - without drama!
✅ Understanding commitment: Playfully recognize your relationship patterns & change them sustainably.
✅ Learning acceptance: How to accept your partner as he or she is - and let true love grow.
✅ Find a dating compass: Never wander aimlessly through the dating jungle again!
✅ Successful communication: Finally being heard and understood - instead of talking past each other.
✅ Mastering crises: How to get through difficult times stronger - instead of being broken by them.
👩⚕️ Alexandra Soor - Experienced couples therapist with a unique approach to relationship skills & emotional intelligence.
👨🏫 David Friedländer - Mediator & systemic coach who gives you new perspectives on partner search & conflict resolution.
🎙️ July Stockheim - Founder of FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS and political communicator who shows you how to successfully master your interpersonal relationships.
🔥 Are you longing for a deep, genuine connection?
🔥 Do you want to finally arrive emotionally instead of constantly searching?
🔥 Tired of frustration, insecurity and disappointing dates?
Then this CoachingTAG is exactly what you need! 🚀
💖 The FAIL IN LOVE coaching day is all about discovering your strengths and cultivating genuine acceptance for your counterpart. You will learn how to really resolve conflicts and communicate successfully with others without losing yourself in the process. At the end of the day, you will have learned to allow closeness while maintaining your boundaries and navigating your way through the dating jungle. You will have learned to understand the different types of attachment in a creative way and gained valuable insight into how to get through times of crisis stronger.
✨ CoachingTAG is suitable for singles and couples, whether straight or queer.
✨ Imagine how it feels when the search is over and you have finally found your inner peace.
From 9.30 a.m.: Arrival
10.00 - 10.30 a.m.: Welcome
10.30 - 12.30: Workshop round 1
12.30 - 13.30: Lunch
13.30 - 14.15: Hypnotherapy session
14.15 - 16.15: Workshop round 2
16.15 - 17.00: Conclusion and exchange
Are you fed up with unspoken expectations, endless misunderstandings and the feeling of constantly having to choose between harmony and self-abandonment? In this interactive workshop, you will not only learn the theory, but also put what you have learned directly into practice.
Together we will practise how to recognize your own boundaries, communicate them clearly and stand firm even when you encounter resistance. Through practical exercises, role plays and strategies suitable for everyday life, you will develop the necessary self-confidence to master conflicts confidently and respectfully.
✅ Learn to be aware of your personal limits - physical, emotional and mental
✅ Practice how to express your needs clearly and appreciatively in interactive exercises
✅ Find out which techniques will help you to remain calm and determined even in difficult situations
✅ Try out strategies to consistently maintain boundaries - without feelings of guilt or unnecessary harshness
✅ Develop more confidence in dealing with conflicts and thus create deeper, more stable relationships
After this workshop, you will not only have new knowledge, but also concrete tools and experiences to use conflict as an opportunity - for more clarity, respect and genuine connection in your relationships.
Our early attachment experiences shape us for a lifetime - but how exactly do they influence our relationships today? In this workshop, we combine in-depth psychological insights about Attachment behavior with interactive Improvisation techniquesto experience the different types of attachment in a completely new way.
🔹 What you can expect:
Get to know yourself in a new, playful way - and shape your relationships more consciously! This workshop is for anyone who wants to better understand themselves and their relationship dynamics - whether single or in a partnership.
Who hasn't experienced it: if you had a magic wand, you would love to witch away some of your partner's behavior. But unfortunately we keep waking up to reality and are confronted with it in partnerships, that someone is not behaving the way we would like them to. This often ends in couples therapy and the couple complains to each other that the other is the way he or she is and doesn't want to change. This immediately leads to frustration on both sides and not infrequently to a break-up and the vicious circle starts all over again in the next relationship.
This session will show you how to Mutual acceptance positive feelings towards unwanted traits in partnerships and how couples can find the way forward. Out of the world of accusations and resistance create.
✅ Alexandra would like to do this at a Live presentation with a local couple who volunteer or with individuals who share their experiences on the topic.
Her approach is that everyone takes away an insight that they can implement immediately in their everyday life and that leads to more closeness not only in partnerships, but also with themselves. And: that the attitude becomes "I love you because of who you are".
Have you had enough of annoying dating apps, frustrating encounters and endless guesswork as to whether someone really suits you? Then this interactive workshop is just the thing for you!
In a small group, you will learn how to date more consciously, more relaxed and more successfully - without getting lost in the chaos of modern dating. Together we'll find out:
✅ Why many people start dating with the wrong motivation - and how you can do better
✅ How to prepare yourself emotionally and mentally for your partner search to start with the right energy
✅ How to find your personal Dating compass so that you know exactly who really suits you
✅ How to specifically analyze dates to avoid wasting time and make the right decisions
✅ Why patience, clarity and self-confidence are the key to a fulfilling relationship
After the workshop you know exactly, what you want, who you are looking for and how you can tell if someone really suits you.
Communication is the key to fulfilling relationships - both privately and professionally. But why do we often fail to be truly heard and understood? In this interactive workshop, we dive deep into the secrets of successful communication.
🔹 What you can expect:
This workshop is for anyone who wants to strengthen their interpersonal relationships, resolve conflicts better and communicate more authentically. Whether in partnerships, friendships or in the family - here you will learn how to bring about lasting changes in your communication!
🚀 Join us and experience aha-moments that will revolutionize the way you communicate!
Everyone knows it and everyone is glad when it's over: a crisis. Whether you're in a relationship or single, a crisis saps everyone's energy reserves and those who are weakened often tend to be irritable and take their mood out on others.
In this session we will work together on what you can rely on in a crisis and if you are in a partnership, it will help you to see how you can benefit from each other in a crisis.
You have the Opportunity realign your inner attitude and, when the next crisis knocks at the door, let it in without reservations, because you can feel what you can best fall back on.
Alexandra Soor (45) has been running her practice for individual and couples therapy in Hofheim, near Frankfurt, for many years. The qualified psychologist has been practising independently for over 17 years and does so with the intention that every person is as individual as the issue that concerns them. The approaches of behavioral, Gestalt or systemic therapy are applied where it makes sense and her broad therapeutic approach and knowledge enable her to work flexibly. She tries to remain true to her approach of "being the therapist you would like to have yourself" on a daily basis and to treat everyone with a great deal of empathy and appreciation.
At the FAIL IN LOVE Coaching Day she will offer sessions that are for couples and singles and show how relationship skills really work and why the basis "I stay me and please love me as I am" is so important.
David Friedländer (45) lives and works in Düsseldorf. After studying law in Munich, he worked as a research assistant in the Bundestag in Berlin. He has been working in the field of medical law since 2014. He is also trained as a mediator and systemic coach at the INeKO Institute at the University of Cologne and advises people in challenging life situations on how to gain clarity and find new paths.
At the FAIL IN LOVE Coaching Day he delves deeper into the topic with you Successful partner search and ability to deal with conflict from a new perspective. With its creative and practical tipshe gives valuable impulses on how we can understand ourselves better, make more conscious decisions in love and master conflicts with more serenity. David helps you to love more consciously, build healthy relationships and master conflicts with more ease.
July Stockheim (34) studied political and social sciences and works in political communication. After a painful break-up, she also founded the live show FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS - Stories of Failure in Love in 2019 and hosts the shows in Cologne and other cities across Germany. With the shows, she helps people to better understand themselves and others and to have more meaningful conversations with each other. Her two areas of activity are seemingly very different and yet have great parallels: Juli puts forward the thesis that the same is required in the political public sphere as in couple relationships and that is to remain open to each other, reliable there and to use conflicts productively.
At the FAIL IN LOVE Coaching Day she teaches you innovative methods from neuroscience, among other things, on how we can communicate better and really Communicate successfully Juli introduces you to the Deep Listening technique to take conversations to a new level and helps you to improve your Get to know bonding patterns in a new, playful way.
Whether you want to share your experiences and learnings as a storyteller, make people laugh as a comedian or give professional advice as an expert on how to make relationships work better in the long run: FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS is the place for you!