🎤 The live show always features 2 storytellers who tell you their personal fail in love stories and - very importantly - what they have learned from them.
🤩 There is always a comedian or comedienne who makes the audience laugh afterwards - after all, humor is when you laugh anyway.
💡 And at the end there is professional advice from a couples therapist who will tell you how to make relationships work better in the long term. Empathize, laugh, understand - these are the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS. Buy tickets now!
🧡 The show has resulted in a card game for couples: 54 questions in the categories You, We and Sex. Order now!
Thu, 22.01.2026
Talking about your story can be liberating. And sharing connects. Whether you've been left or you've broken up: tell your story, tell what you've learned and learn a lot of new things about yourself in the process. Speakers for the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS are always wanted.
Grow beyond yourself, this is your stage!
Why do I always end up with the wrong person? My friends all get married, but why doesn't love work out for me? How do my partner and I not fall into the daily grind? How do you deal with needs and expectations in a relationship? Find out more in the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS blog.
Just have a read.
Telling stories around the campfire is one of humanity's most primal forms of communication. Storytelling has always been the best way to convey experiences and connect us with one another. And stories have a special magic. Through them, we can find common ground and learn from differences.
My mission at FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS is therefore to bring people closer together through the magic of storytelling and to show them that they are not alone. I believe that love and its end is a universal experience that we all know, regardless of our differences. The FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS invite you to inspire each other and laugh together. Hhere are lusting stories from the love lives of others and meaningful moments for everyone.
The authenticity of the speakers and the openness of the audience create an atmosphere in which people encourage, support and inspire each other. Every story and every talk shows that failure does not mean the end, but is often the beginning of growth and transformation.
The FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS celebrate diversity in every respect and stand for open and respectful interaction with one another. The FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS are more than just a show. We are a community that believes in a world where love is not limited by fear or prejudice, but where it offers space for growth, change and deep connection.
And FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS is a format that builds bridges between people who may not seem to have much in common at first glance, but have at least one thing in common: their challenges in interpersonal relationships. We look at what connects us instead of what divides us. The show thus invites us to understand each other better and helps us to understand ourselves better.
You can find all FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS event dates at Buy tickets.
You can find the brand new card game for all great couples „Curious questions - discover each other anew“ at Store. Perfect as a gift!
✅ For anyone who has ever loved
✅ For couples and singles
✅ For storytelling, comedy and psychology fans
✅ Funny and entertaining
Empowering
Instructive and moving
✅ Diverse in every respect
✅ Self-reflective and respectful
Welding together
✅ Show about deep feelings
❌ A mourning club for singles
❌ Only for singles
❌ Only for people who are heartbroken
❌ Depressing
Discriminatory
Insulting or derogatory
❌ Exclusionary
❌ Dating show
I'm Juli Stockheim, mid-30s, a Cologne resident by choice, an optimistic realist and the founder of FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS - stories of failure in love. I love the stories behind people. What moves them. What disappoints them. What inspires them. And there are so many stories that are worth telling. My story leads me to create a show for you: I was with my ex-girlfriend for over 10 years. A love that started when I was 18 and was supposed to last forever, but then failed. As is the case, a break-up after such a long time does something to you.
While I was processing this failure, I sat on the streetcar in Cologne on a gray November day and looked at equally gray expressions on the faces around me. I wondered what was happening in other people's lives and whether any of them were experiencing something similar. Am I alone with my experiences and feelings? I hadn't had any conversations with the people around me that day, but I had with others. And I realized that you are not alone. That's why it's good to talk to each other openly and honestly. And it also connects people who were perhaps previously complete strangers.
I would like to give you this experience at the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS.
The good thing about life is that it always writes new stories. After every break-up, there comes a point when you have overcome the end of the relationship. In the best case scenario, you can look back with gratitude on the time you spent together, find new strength and perhaps even a new great love. I wish you that and look forward to hearing your story!
Find out more about why relationships fail and what makes them succeed and don't miss a show.
... With the brand new card game „Curious questions - discover each other anew“: 54 meaningful questions in the 3 categories You, Us and Sex! Made for all couples who are as great as you are - inspired by real relationship stories and developed with couples therapists. 🌈
