FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS - Stories of failure in love / Cologne Vol. 19
Mon., 18.12.2023, 7.00 p.m.
The FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS are THE show about failure and success in love. The live show always features 2 storytellers who tell the stories of their experiences in love and - very important - what they have learned from them. One comedian makes you laugh afterwards - just for fun. 😉 And at the end, you'll get professional advice from a couples therapist who will tell you how to make relationships work better in the long run. Feel with them, laugh with them, understand yourself better - this is the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHT.
We celebrate being open and treating others with respect. And we want to bring you closer together. Our focus is make you understand yourself and others better.
Opening up to others is not easy, but it's worth it. You make new friends (the right ones!) and you'll notice: we all have the same feelings, make mistakes and know those damn heartbreaks.
It's okay to screw up in love sometimes. At FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS, you'll learn why relationships fail. And be part of a growing community for more meaningful conversations.
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Telling stories is one of mankind's most primal forms of communication. Stories have always been the most beautiful way to share your experiences and connect us with each other. And stories have a special magic. With telling us stories about our lives, we can discover commonalities and learn from differences. Especially when it comes to relationships and breakups, an open and meaningful conversation with others can help us to understand better.
At the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS you will learn howothers deal with challenges in their love lives.
Experience the show in one of three roles : just listen as a guest and learn more about yourself and others. Tell your own story as a speaker and grow beyond yourself. Or give the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS as an Location owner a home in your city!
Think about your family, your friends. How did love start in your environment - and how did it end? What breakups have you experienced yourself? What stories have happened in your life?
It takes courage to open up and show your true self. Making yourself vulnerable is scary, but it makes us authentic and it is the source of connection, friendship and love. Be brave and show the people out there that they have the same problems as all of us!
At FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS, you'll experience an evening where it's okay to be who you are.
Get inspired, learn more about how to make relationships work better in the long run, and meet new people!
Tell your story can be liberating. And sharing connects.
Whether you've been dumped or you've broken up: Tell your story, share what you've learned, and give others the chance to learn from your experiences .
Grow beyond yourself, dare it!
You have a chic event location indoor or oudoor, for example with an open-air area, a bar or a cozy café?
Invite the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS Community for more meaningful conversations to your location and become part of this movement.
Become a show maker in your city!
At the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS you are part of a movement for more meaningful conversations. Learn more about failure in love and how to grow from it.
I'm Juli Stockheim, in my early 30s, a Cologne resident by choice, an optimistic realist and the founder of FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS - Stories of Failure in Love. I love the stories behind people. What touches them. What disappoints them. What inspires them. And there are so many stories worth telling. My story leaded me to create a show for you:
I was with my ex-girlfriend for over 10 years. A great love that started at the age at 18 and was supposed to last forever, but then failed. As it happens, a separation after such a long time changes you.
While I was healing from this failure, I sat on a gray November day in the tram in Cologne and saw the same gray faces around me. I wondered what was happening in the lives of those others around me at that time and if any of them were experiencing something similar. Am I alone with my experiences and feelings? On that day, no conversations had happened with the people around me, but on others. And in the following month I realized that one is not alone with all of this questions after a breakup. That's why it's good to talk openly and honestly with each other. And it also connects people who may have been complete strangers before.
These magic moments of connection are what I want to share with you at the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS.
The good thing about life is that it always writes new stories. After every breakup, there comes a point when you have overcome pain. In the best case, you can look back with gratitude on the time you've spent together, find new strength and maybe even a new love. This is what I wish you and look forward to hearing your story!
Whether you want to share your experiences and learnings as a storyteller, make people laugh as a comedian or give professional advice as an expert on how to make relationships work better in the long run: FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS is the place for you!