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Many relationship experts say that most couples seek counseling far too late and only come when conflicts have already hardened. Many singles are increasingly exhausted in the face of the wild dating jungle and believe they have to manage everything on their own. But that doesn't have to be the case.

On this page you will find experts on numerous topics relating to love, relationships, dating, sex, affairs, burnout, self-confidence, singles coaching and much more.

Alexandra Soor

Psychotherapeutic counselor, Gestalt therapist & systemic coaching

Alexandra Soor specializes in psychotherapeutic counselling, couples therapy and systemic coaching - with a particular focus on women and couples. Her topics include self-confidence, relationships, old patterns and fears, career changes, patchwork families and the desire to have children. She also offers hypnotherapy and online courses, including „Love without doubt - finally leading trusting relationships“. With her practice in Hofheim am Taunus (near Frankfurt), Alexandra helps people to develop more ease, clarity and satisfaction in their private and professional lives - empathetically, individually and results-oriented.

Stella Schultner

Psychologist and expert for love, dating & relationships

Every day, Stella Schultner accompanies people who long for successful dating and stable partnerships. In her IN LOVE podcast, on Instagram and other social media channels, she shares her expertise to help people understand themselves and others better, overcome fears of commitment and loss and become more self-confident and relationship-ready overall.

Melanie Mittermaier

Affair manager, couples counselor, relationship coach

Melanie Mittermaier has been helping individuals and couples to overcome crises after an infidelity or an affair for over 10 years. The psychological counselor also speaks from her own experience. In her podcast „Learning to love“, she not only gives real talk, but also provides professional tips on how to deal with affairs. In addition to her online course „In love with someone else? Get clarity instead of chaos“ and her emergency course after an affair, she offers a membership program and training for relationship coaches-to-be.

Tina Tanšek 

Psychologist and coach for inner freedom and a courageous life

Tina Tanšek helps you to shed the burden of old wounds and finally take a deep breath. She opens doors that have long seemed closed: out of fear, compulsions and old pain - into clarity, closeness and the courage to redesign your own life. She shows you healing paths for such stressful issues as fears, panic, compulsions, emotional eating and relationship conflicts - into a life that feels free, strong and alive.

Markus Parnow

Systemic couples counseling (also poly-couples), mediation and conflict resolution

Artist. Coach. Man. Markus‘ work focuses on systemic couples counseling, mediation and conflict resolution. He explicitly advises monogamous couples as well as people who want to open up their relationship, are polyamorous or want to live other forms of non-monogamy. Together with his podcast partner Daniel Cremer, he searches for ideals of new masculinity in the podcast Bliss Balls - Mann Sein im Vollkontakt.

Lisa Opel

Author, speaker and pleasure advocate

Lisa Opel likes to talk about lust, fantasies and unadorned eroticism. In her book GIVE IT TO ME! she tells realistic erotic short stories that celebrate lust and self-discovery. Her workbook SEX SEX SEX will be published in 2025 - an interactive guide with over 100 exercises for playfully exploring your own sexuality, solo or as a couple. Together with JOYclub, she has also developed a free online course on long-term relationships - with practical ideas and lots of love boosters. In her bilingual podcast DEEP&DIRTY, she talks to experts about lust, relationships and sexual self-discovery. She also gives workshops on fantasies and communication and organizes live readings and events with Joyclub.

Nino Lahdo (Ruhoo®)

Resilience trainer and burnout consultant

Nino Lahdo supports men in finding themselves again after break-ups - with a focus on emotional stability, self-management and healthy relationships. He studied environmental management and also works as a certified resilience trainer and burnout consultant.
His work combines in-depth knowledge with practical methods: In courses, workshops and his coaching system, he teaches how to release old patterns, gain mental clarity and develop an authentic, self-confident presence - not through superficial tricks, but through real change „from within“.

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Consulting collective in Cologne

Whether you are experiencing an acute life crisis or seeking change and development, we are here for you.We are a community of therapists, counselors, and coaches who support you during challenging phases of life and demanding development processes. fast, professional, and above all, very personal accompany and support you. Located in the heart of Cologne-Ehrenfeld, we offer customized processes covering all aspects of Relationship issues and mental health to.
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