Misunderstandings, unspoken expectations, and the feeling that people are talking past each other—whether in relationships, at work, or on stage—good communication often determines whether people feel connected or alone.
In the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS Workshops You'll learn how to have conversations that really make a difference. You'll understand why conflicts arise, how to better connect with people, and how to build genuine connections.
The new FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS workshops combine the latest findings from psychology, communication studies, and neuroscience with insights gained from over 50 Nights of Love Gone Wrong, where hundreds of people have shared their most moving stories about love, breakups, failure, and new beginnings.
✅ Communication that brings people together: Listen Better. Speak More Clearly. Truly Connect with People
✅ Finally resolve those recurring relationship conflicts: Playfully recognize your relationship patterns and change them for good
✅ Stage. Story. Community – Here’s how to create events that inspire people: How to Fill Halls and Inspire People with Your Idea
The workshops will be available for booking starting in 2027.
Many conflicts don't arise because we don't talk enough—but because we don't want to hear what the other person is saying.
In this workshop, you’ll learn how to truly listen and have conversations in a way that makes the other person feel understood. You’ll gain more confidence in difficult conversations and learn techniques that can be applied immediately in both romantic relationships and friendships. In this interactive workshop, we’ll dive deep into the secrets of successful communication.
🔹 What you can expect:
This workshop is for anyone who wants to strengthen their interpersonal relationships, resolve conflicts more effectively, and communicate more clearly. Revolutionize the way you communicate and finally untangle those conflicts!
Some relationships keep running into the same conflicts over and over again. Why? Because different people love in different ways. They deal with closeness, distance, arguments, and uncertainty in very different ways.
In this interactive workshop, you’ll discover your own relationship and attachment style and understand why other people sometimes react in ways that are completely different from what you expect. Instead of placing blame, you’ll develop understanding—for yourself and for others.
In this workshop, we combine in-depth psychological insights about Attachment behavior with interactive Improvisation techniquesto experience the different types of attachment in a completely new way.
🔹 What you can expect:
Get to know yourself in a new, playful way - and shape your relationships more consciously! This workshop is for anyone who wants to better understand themselves and their relationship dynamics - whether single or in a partnership.
Do you dream of organizing your own events, bringing people together, or taking the stage as a host? In this workshop, Juli will show you, step by step, how to turn an idea into a successful event format will be.
🔹 You'll learn:
The workshop is designed for facilitators, coaches, speakers, cultural event organizers, and anyone who wants to make a lasting impact on people through their events.
Juli Schultz-Stockheim (35) studied political science and sociology and has been working in political communications for over 15 years. Following a painful breakup, she also founded the live show FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS—Stories of Failure in Love in 2019 and hosts the shows in Cologne and other cities throughout Germany. Through these shows, she helps people better understand themselves and others and have more meaningful conversations with one another. With over 50 shows under her belt, she’s heard quite a few stories and lessons, and she’ll share the best tips with you.
Communication is Juli's passion and her profession. In the FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS Workshops she teaches you innovative methods from neuroscience, among other things, on how we can communicate better and really Communicate successfully In the workshop „Communication That Connects: Listen Better. Speak More Clearly. Truly Reach People,“ Juli will introduce you to the Deep Listening technique to take your conversations to a new level. What you learn will help you in both your romantic relationships and your friendships.
In relationships, two (or more) people come together, each bringing their own unique past experiences. And these worlds can not only be very different, but—especially in romantic relationships—they can clash quite a bit. Learn in the workshop „Finally Resolve Those Same Old Relationship Conflicts“ Get to know your relationship and attachment style—that is, how you’ve learned to navigate relationships—and gain a whole new, playful understanding of how people with different attachment styles see you.
In the workshop „Stage. Story. Community – How to Create Events That Inspire People“ Juli will teach you how to make your event idea a success and fill the venue. Here, you'll learn everything—from designing an exciting format to finding the right venue and reaching your target audience, all the way to hosting skills and crisis management.
The new FAIL IN LOVE NIGHTS workshops are specifically designed for both singles and people in relationships. This means you’ll learn more about yourself and others—whether as a preventive measure or to address a specific situation. And you’ll finally understand why conflicts keep recurring and how you can resolve them.
Yes, each workshop can be booked for a maximum of 12 people.
Each workshop stands on its own and covers distinct content. They can be combined as needed. The workshop „Stage. Story. Community—How to Create Events That Inspire People“ stands out from the other two available workshops in that it focuses not on relationships, but on event planning and PR.
Please click the button and send me a message to add yourself to the waiting list for the respective workshops. These offerings will become available starting in 2027.
... With the brand new card game „Curious questions - discover each other anew“: 54 meaningful questions in the 3 categories You, Us and Sex! Made for all couples who are as great as you are - inspired by real relationship stories and developed with couples therapists. 🌈